Monday, February 16, 2009

Love, Love and Love.

Love, Love, and Love.
Carlos Malcon Matute Castillo.
Writing Workshop.

Love is one of the most beautiful issues to talk, especially when this means to happen. Everyone of us has experimented love from parents, brothers, sisters, friendship for example.But there is a kind of love that go beyond the means as for instance the love a couple undergo. This kind of love is thoroughly different not only because it could happen with someone we have seen along with childhood, school days, or university, but also with someone we have never seen before. No matter what? or how? Love happens because individuals meet, feel, or agreed certain certain kind of matches such as physical attraction, nice treatment coming from one or from both, the things they like, the time they spend together, it is been said "that closeness creates love and some attachment to people." In Honduras we say "if the heart beats as one" that means love is about to happen. The list would become endless if we continues talking about love. Nevertheless, personally, I am a man who would like to find someone who is loyal, tender, honest, someone who cares about others, someone who has project to achieve in life, someone who would really love me as would do, no matter what, ethnic group, distance, creed, social status, someone who would love the way I am. If I meet these situation in a woman then I will ask her for a date, later on I would propose her and lastly, marriage would come to happen by mutual agreement.Among other traits, I would also like a woman with outgoing personality. I wouldn't mind about appearance, not much. Because when we talk about "appearances" most man expect a beautiful woman. But this is a temporary physical state, indeed. Moreover, we most consider the inner beauty because this a long last and valuable characteristic of a human been. I my personal life I have in been in love, truly, twice. Both women where different in many ways, the first, was not to physically beautiful at all, but several valuable inner traits made me think that was a match. The latter, was so beautiful, physically, but shallow in the back. As I dealed with them in different times, and spaces, I found out that they demanded almost same things such a looking to be attended, they like me to call them as much a I could, be the one who was mostly interested. I spent good time with them we went out, we work together we planned things for others. Unfortunately, I never reached to the point of marriage. It was hard to get them to this point and so,for mutual agreement we split it and good friendship came up. As we become have become good friends I have experimented more care from them, they talk to me, now even more and advice me about going with girls. On the top of that, they try to hook me up for one of their friends, but unfortunately, I am this far from home. I would have had been nice if that would had happened while I was in my country. Even though, this is a girl, I knew from before, and try to get into love affairs by showing my flags, nothing happened, I didn't feel anything, that would mean to come to happen. I have just received a phone call from her saying "she loves me." I was melting and shining like a candle in the dark when I heard it. But what can I do this farm, but just love, love, and love until I get back home.

1 comment:

  1. I really like that statement "If the heart beats as one." That's a very profound thing to say.

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